Career Preparation

When Felix was growing up, we always encouraged him to pursue a career in government. As our only son, Cornelius and I wanted him to obtain a career that would bring honor to our family, and government positions hold great prestige. Felix has always been a great communicator, excellent in his academics and well-liked by all, so we figured it would be a perfect fit.

During Felix's three years in school with a rhetor (age 14-17), we knew he was going to pursue politics, so I began to host parties and gatherings at our home to help him make connections with patrons. When your son reaches the age when he's transitioning into adulthood, and especially if he's planning on pursuing a career in public service, it is crucial to make sure the home is well-kept so that your son can maintain his prestige. One of your last big roles as a parent is to send him off into his career with a great reputation and connections. My advice is to be vigilant, remembering that every action you take has the potential to reflect on your son. When he Felix was seventeen, he joined the military, as many men often do before going into a career in politics. Before he left, we performed his toga virilis ceremony, celebrating his transition into adulthood before he moved away. Sending your son off to join the military is one of the hardest experiences as a parent, and as I'm writing this, Felix is still currently serving our empire through military service. I am anxious every day for his safety and health, but I'm comforted by the fact that he is performing his duty as a Roman citizen and succeeding in his endeavors. Whenever I am concerned for him, I give offerings to the goddess Salus who provides health and safety, and Mars, the god of war. I recommend doing the same for your children when they have left your care-- you might not be able to look after them physically, but it is important to continue to keep them in your thoughts and prayers.

Overall, when your child reaches the early steps of his career, do your best to provide for him, helping him cultivate connections and a good reputation. But also continue to be his emotional stronghold, a peaceful and safe presence for him during this transition. No one is ever too old to need their mom, even if he's stepping into his life of imndependence.

vale, et animum sume,

Octavia